I run into former students on a regular basis. It's usually a pleasant experience, and I receive far more compliments than I deserve. I'm sorry to say that I rarely recognize the person as a former student, but since they now range in age from a young of 26 and an old of 51, I think I can be forgiven for that.
Jacqueline and I volunteer at the hospital on Tuesdays. We push a cart around and serve drinks (hot chocolate, coffee, tea, and water) to people waiting for their loved ones. Yesterday one of my prospective customers looked at me and said, "Did you used to teach high school?" I admitted that I had, and she stood up and came close and said my name, tears popping out of her eyes. We hugged and she continued to cry, and after we'd caught up a bit she told me (tears still streaming down her face) about a moment that had touched her soul.
I was teaching in a program for kids who really didn't fit into the concept of a school system. The program was designed to give them a break, second and third (etcetera) chances, and extra help along the way. One of the things I did on Fridays in the last minutes of class was to read a "minute mystery," and whoever got the solution first got a few points of extra credit. I thought it was a good way to make use of time that would probably have been wasted otherwise, and it also played to good listening and thinking skills. A useful waste of time I thought. The girl...well, woman now!...told me that she had been dyslexic and thought of herself as stupid, but that she solved every one of those minute mysteries before anyone else, and thought, "So how could I be stupid?" Needless to say we were both crying at this point.
We ended with well wishes and hugs, and I moved on to give out coffee and hot chocolate and tea and water.
I will certainly never forget her again.
And it hit me that this little mystery solving thing was just something on the side, virtually insignificant to me, a way to make things fun for kids who hated school. But it had made a real impact on this woman's life. It was something that she still remembered 24 years later. Something that made her weep at the memory it lifted up in her heart.
It made me grateful to have served that purpose for Lindsey...and fearful of the power that a teacher can have over a child.